David Harbor talks about life’s ‘mistakes’ amid cheating drama
By Afouda Bamidele | Published: 2025-11-03 17:30:00 | Source: The Blast
The actor spoke candidly about life, saying he was torn between wanting to change everything he did and accepting it all as part of his identity. His reflection comes at an equally sensitive time Lily AllenThe latest project, “West End Girl,” continues to generate attention for its explicit lyrics about their breakup.
David Harbor and Lily Allen are separating after four years of marriage, and her songs seem to paint a picture of a relationship marked by addiction, infidelity and an open marriage gone wrong.
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David Harbor reflects on his regrets about life at age 50
Harbor takes a hard look at life and doesn’t shy away from tough questions. When asked if he would change anything in the last 50 years, the actor gave a profound answer.
Harbor acknowledged that regret is complicated, saying “even pain, missteps and mistakes” have shaped who he is. He explained that trying to rewrite even one part of his story would mean rewriting all of it, and that would erase the lessons and growth that came with it.
Respected He points out that Harbor linked his ideas to his craft, saying that his struggles fueled his artistic prowess. Without them, he wouldn’t have the same compassion or insight to share through his work. According to him, “If you haven’t been through anything before, what do you really have to offer?”
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The ‘Stranger Things’ star speaks candidly about legacy
The 50-year-old doesn’t sleep much about how he’ll be remembered. When asked about his legacy, Harbor said he doesn’t think much about how people will view him after he’s gone.
Inspired by Mike Tyson’s viral moment, Harbor recalls the boxer telling a young interviewer that death makes talking about legacy meaningless, a frank sentiment he admits he relates to. For Harpur, what matters most is not being remembered, but creating meaningful work while he is here.
He explained, “I’d like to be able to keep telling these stories, keep producing, keep going out and seeing the joy in people’s eyes to experience something. Then the minute I die, you’ll never have to talk about me again.”
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Lily Allen’s song reopens questions about the tragic death linked to Harbor’s past
Like it or not, part of Harbor’s legacy is now tied to the revelation of his private life on Allen’s new album. A song in “West End Girl” has sparked renewed interest in a nearly decade-old tragedy linked to his past, The Blast reported.
One of the songs, “P-ssy Palace,” mentions an “apartment in the West Village,” a detail that caught listeners’ attention because of its strange connection to a real-life incident. The lyrics read: “Don’t come home, I don’t want you in my bed. Go to the apartment in the West Village instead.”
ICYMI, in 2015, 29-year-old Christine Croft fell to her death from Harbour’s East Village apartment while he was away filming in Canada. At the time, police ruled the case “unspecified” but not suspicious. A note was found, although its contents were never published.
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David Harbor’s ex David Harbor has shown his support for Lily Allen amid controversy over the album
Before Harbor’s latest thoughts made headlines, another development in the ongoing divisive drama emerged. His ex-girlfriend, Alison Sudol, appeared to quietly support Allen after her new album sparked talk of infidelity.
The Blast highlighted that when Allen shared the cover photo for “West End Girl” on Instagram, Sudol dropped a line of flame emojis in the comments, a small gesture that was quickly interpreted as support. She hasn’t spoken publicly about the songs, but the timing of her reaction speaks volumes.
Allen and Harbor began dating in 2019, shortly after his split from Sudol, and tied the knot the following year in a spontaneous ceremony in Las Vegas.
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Lily Allen opened up about the struggles months before the album dropped
Long before everyone was talking about Allen’s new project, the songwriter had already hinted that something was wrong. Back in January, she got candid on her show “Miss Me?” podcast, revealing that she was stepping away from the spotlight to focus on her mental health.
The outburst noted that Allen spoke openly about feeling emotionally drained, admitting, “I have a hard time paying attention to anything.” She described the past few months as a downward spiral that left her feeling out of control despite her efforts to get back on track.
The actress also shared how her emotions took a toll on her body, from panic attacks during a podcast event to crashing out of a stage show mid-performance. At the time, Allen said she couldn’t think about anything other than her pain.
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